Diary:2024-03-20

After work, Maria, Hannah, Kim, and Hannah's partner Julie, all took me out to a bar for drinks and to talk about my situation. I will admit, it was fun talking about all the things we could do for Lee. My girlfriends have a pretty good (and scary) imagination. One of the reasons I love them so much. There was a guy at the bar who tried to hit on us,  but his timing could not have been worse. A word of advice to men. Never try to hit on women when they are discussing all the things they could do to a man who has cheated on one of them.
Ultimately, the conversation turned to Lee's wife and kids. We all agreed that they were the real victims. We tried all night to figure out a way to stop Lee from continuing to cheat on her, but we just could not come up with a solution. We all agreed that she needed to know the truth, but how? If someone (meaning me) told her, she would probably not believe them. Nobody wants to think of their spouse in that way. In the end, and after many drinks, plots, and plans of dismemberment, we all decided that the wife needed to know. However, no consensus was reached on the best approach. 

So after an Uber ride home, I now lay here in bed, dreading the idea of telling her, while knowing that I have to. I just need to figure out how to do it that will give her a chance to believe me. Lee texted me today. He wants to go on a date on Saturday. I almost instantly replied no, but didn't instead, I just ignored him for now. 


Cheers for now.

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